Marriage is a challenging relationship and needs continual attention to avoid living separate lives under one roof. Many couples only come for counseling when the relationship is so distredded one or the other partner is thinking about divorce. Although most marriages can come back from this state, it is painful and unnecessary if a couple seeks a qualified therapist before then. There are some general issues most couples need to address and some very specific to their marriage. Both are addressed in my work with couples.
For over three decades in practice I have worked with hundreds of couples to work through to healthier relating. Many have let me know many years later that the work we did together changed their relationship for the better. Some of the issues I address with couples include:
Conflict Resolution Skills
Understanding your partner's needs and expectations, and being understood more fully yourself
Boundaries and how to set and maintain them without arguing and resentments building
Sexual difficulties if present
Gender differences in terms of needs and perspective
Most marriages can be saved if partner's are willing to work together to create harmony and peace. I help those who feel helpless and hopeless find their way back to the loving relating that brought them together in the first place.